Energetic dissonance occurs when the vibrational frequencies of two people

(or places) are no longer compatible.

Much like different operating systems,

macOS, Linux, and Windows,

they exist in the same world,

but they don’t speak the same language.

It’s like trying to fit a square peg into a round hole.

For two people to continue coexisting in one another’s lives,

each person must be doing the same

or nearly the same amount of

inner work, healing, and growth

to remain energetically compatible.

This applies to any connection or relationship.

Romantic partners.

Business.

Friends.

Family.

Coworkers.

Doctors.

Mail carriers.

Anyone you’re in frequent contact with.

The universe allows for about

a three-inch gap

in the energetic frequency zone

in either direction.

If person A moves forward in their healing and growth,

and person B remains in the same spot as before,

the energetic grace period,

or “buffer zone”,

gets smaller and smaller

the longer person B stays stagnant

and person A continues to grow.

Eventually, person A will grow too much

for person B to remain in contact with them.

Physical interactions and communication

are often cut abruptly,

leaving person A,

and sometimes person B,

confused about what happened.

This is often perceived as ghosting,

or someone seemingly falling off

the face of the earth

with no explanation.

However, if person B decides to pick up

their healing and growth journey again,

their energy, vibration, and frequency increase.

This allows them to move upward

toward person A again.

Depending on how much work person B has done,

reconnection may occur,

like a dropped call reconnecting

once the signal is strong enough.

Or, for gamers,

think proximity chat:

you can only hear and speak

to those within range.

The point is this:

The universe only allows so much buffer space

between two people

who are not energetically compatible.

If one person is consistently doing the work

to heal and grow,

and others around them are not,

energetic dissonance

will naturally end the connection.

You haven’t done anything wrong.

You’ve just outgrown them.