by Stashia Jeanette

Navigating Love Languages (Full Moon in Libra): Why You Need To Know Yours

Navigating Love Languages (Full Moon in Libra): Why You Need To Know Yours

By Stashia Jeanette • Ascension Oracle Vii

We’re entering a collective season where love isn’t just a hashtag — it’s a portal.

Fresh out of a solar eclipse in Aries and a full moon lunar eclipse in Virgo (hi, both of my signs, by the way!), the energetic terrain is ripe for transformation — especially when it comes to how we give and receive love. Now, coming up on the Full Moon in Libra on the 12th of April, centered around love & relationships. Venus has officially completed her time in the underworld, and it’s time to get real on love.

In this solo episode of Ascension With Vii, I flowed into a deep channel around what it really means to love and be loved. And today, I’m offering you the medicine that poured through: a no-BS, soul-rooted exploration of love languages, divine partnership, energetic wounds, and why self-honesty is the realest relationship ritual there is.

🎧 Prefer to watch or listen? Catch the full episode on Spotify or YouTube.

💗 You Can’t Manifest Divine Love if You Don’t Know Yourself

Let’s cut the spiritual fluff: If you don’t know who you are, what you want, and how you need to be loved — the Universe can’t send you your match.

Why? Because you’re sending out a blurry signal. You’re trying to Amazon Prime a soulmate, but your cart is full of confusion.

I was recently guided by God/Source/Universe (aka GSU) to create a divine union worksheet — a love vision blueprint. This wasn’t some cute Pinterest list. It was born out of radical self-honesty. I sat my Virgo self down and asked:

  • How do I want to be supported?
  • What are my hard no’s?
  • What does love feel like in my body?
  • Am I ready to receive the kind of love I desire?

✨ Want to go deeper? Grab the Energetic Love Blueprint Template exclusively on my Patreon to map your own divine union vision.

🤍 Stop Lying About the Kind of Lover You Are

So many people are out here faking independence because “I don’t need anybody” sounds powerful. But needingconnection doesn’t make you weak — it makes you honest.

You like to cuddle every night? Say that. You want to be up in your partner’s skin 24/7? Own that. You need quality time AND alone time to recharge? Declare it.

God/Source knows what’s in your heart already. But if you’re not willing to admit it to yourself, you’re co-creating confusion instead of clarity.

🌀 Pro tip: If you’re still attracting the same types of partners, check your Chiron placement and South Node. It’s often a soul wound disguised as a dating pattern.

🔥 There Are Levels to Healing — And It’s Okay to Be In Progress

One of the most important things I’ve learned is this: You can be healing and still be worthy of love — but you have to know where you are on your journey.

Don’t claim to be on level 20 when you’re still figuring out level 3. And definitely don’t settle for a relationship that makes you regress just so you’re not alone.

Sometimes another person has the medicine you can’t reach for yourself — that awkward wound on your back only their love can dress. But there’s a difference between sacred partnership and codependency disguised as healing.

💎 If you’re in a soul season of transformation and want spiritual mentorship through it, apply to work 1:1 with me for my Executive Ascension Program.

🌹 Know Your Love Language — It’s a Portal, Not a Buzzword

Let’s be real. Love languages aren’t just cute Instagram polls — they’re soul strategy. Mine? Acts of service and touch. If your words don’t match your actions, I feel it on an energetic level. If you can see that I’m struggling and take the initiative to lighten my load? That’s how I receive love.

The Universe listens to how you treat yourself, too. So if you’re neglecting your own love languages, don’t be surprised when others do the same.

Take time to ask yourself:

  • What gestures make me feel seen?
  • How do I act when I feel safe?
  • What small things light me up?

And most importantly… what does support look like for me?

🧬 Love Without Self-Awareness is Just Projection

If you’ve ever found yourself asking, “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of people?” — the answer might be uncomfortable: You’re still lying to yourself.

You’re calling in versions of love based on old programming, unhealed wounds, or half-truths about what you really need. And because of that, you’re entering relationships where both people are unconsciously bleeding on each other.

💔 Hurt people hurt people. Healed people don’t settle.

If you’re not ready to love from wholeness, do yourself and others a favor and stay single until you are. Sit down. Breathe. Heal. Get honest. Let GSU fill the spaces you’re trying to rush someone else into.

🌀 Closing Portal: Soul Contracts & Real Love

Every person who hurt you — and everyone you’ve hurt — was part of a soul contract. You came to Earth with this curriculum. So instead of blaming, thank them. Forgive them. And integrate the lessons.

Because when you know your wounds, your love language, your vision, your triggers, and your thresholds — you’re finally ready to love without self-abandonment.

🌹 Ready to go deeper into this work?

With divine love & real talk,
Stashia Jeanette
Ascension Oracle Vii

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