by Stashia Jeanette

When the Feminine Surrenders Too Much: Finding Power in the Balance of Light & Shadow

When the Feminine Surrenders Too Much: Finding Power in the Balance of Light & Shadow

By Stashia Jeanette • Ascension Oracle Vii

There’s something sacred happening in the collective right now — a deep reckoning with our light and our shadow, our surrender and our action. And I want to share what’s been moving through me as I integrate this within myself.

In this episode of Ascension With Vii, I dropped in with God’s Source Universe and channeled a message that’s been rippling through my own journey lately: the importance of keeping your shadow self integrated with your light, and the divine masculine harmonized with your divine feminine.

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🌓 The Trap of “Too Much Light” — And Why It’s Not Always Enlightening

Let me keep it real with you: You can become so light-focused, so surrendered, so divine feminine that it becomes avoidance in disguise.

Lately, I found myself over-filtering what I post, hesitating to share what I’ve written or channeled, worried I might rock the boat. I was trying to stay “balanced” — but what I was really doing was silencing my shadow. Muting the part of me that holds power, boundaries, fire, and truth.

We are made of both. Your darkness isn’t something to heal out of you. It’s something to integrate into your light.

🌊 Trust is Not the Absence of Action — It’s Co-Creation

People love to say “I’m just trusting the process.” And I get it — I’ve lived it. There were years in my life where all I could do was trust. I had nothing else to fall back on but my faith in God/Source/Universe.

But sometimes, trust becomes a bypass. It turns into spiritual stagnation if you’re always waiting and never moving. Yes, surrender is powerful. But so is divine action. So is the sacred fire of masculine energy that says, “Move now. Speak now. Post it now.”

🌀 If you’ve felt too surrendered, too passive, and are ready to call in your divine structure again — this is your permission slip.

🧘🏽‍♀️ The Divine Dance: Feminine Flow Meets Masculine Structure

I used to swing between extremes:

  • 2020–2022: Deep in my masculine — planning, grinding, forcing outcomes.
  • Post-2022: Deep in surrender — floating, trusting, waiting… and sometimes stalling.

Now? I’m finally finding the middle ground — the sweet spot where my empress receives intuitive downloads and my emperor takes aligned action.

✨ I call it the Co-Creation Code:

  • Feel the nudge → Feminine receives
  • Take the step → Masculine responds

That’s the dance. That’s the frequency of divine balance. And it’s not perfect. Some days I’m too surrendered. Other days I want to grab the Universe by the to-do list. But I catch it now. I course-correct. And that’s the work.

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🛑 Micromanaging the Universe Never Works (Trust Me, I Tried)

If you’re a Virgo like me, or just a Type-A spiritual overachiever, you probably tried to block your day into time slots, control your manifestations, or schedule your miracles. Let me lovingly say: God’s Source Universe does not do time blocks.

When I tried to micromanage my ascension, I felt blocked, restricted, and anxious. I was accidentally cutting off divine flow because I was too busy trying to predict and control the divine delivery process.

So now? I let the empress receive the vision and let the emperor move in flow — not in rigidity.

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⚔️ You Are the Light and the Shadow — Stop Choosing Just One

You weren’t designed to be all love-and-light.

Your dark side — your shadow — is where your deepest wisdom lives. It’s where your boundaries, discernment, creative fire, and sacred anger are born. And when your shadow is integrated and honored, your light becomes unshakable.

Stop pretending your triggers don’t exist. Stop playing small to stay “safe.” Stop denying the divine power of your shadow.

You came here to be whole — not perfect.

🧬 Soul Medicine: Be the Blueprint for Those Who Come After You

I always say this: Everything I create now is for the ones who come after me. Every blog, every podcast, every download is a map. A breadcrumb trail. A soul code.

I want you to know that even if what you’re moving through doesn’t make sense right now — one day it will. One day, someone will listen to this episode, read these words, and say:

“I get it now. I’m not crazy. I’m ascending.”

And that’s why I share. That’s why I speak.

🔥 Ready to Go Deeper?

If you’re ready to integrate your shadow, awaken your inner divine masculine, and reclaim your spiritual power…

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With infinite love, divine integration, and soul-sourced clarity,
Stashia Jeanette
Ascension Oracle Vii ✨

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